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Affair Recovery

"Healing doesn't mean the damage never existed.  It means the damage no longer controls our lives."

~ Unknown

Affair Recovery Roadmap

Part 1
Crisis Management
Part 2: Forgiveness
Getting the Story
Learning from the Affair
Part 3: Reconciliation
Taking Responsibility
Plan for Change

For many who have experienced infidelity, the way forward is unclear.  In the face of so much pain, it is difficult to sort out what steps to take to heal and repair the relationship.  I can provide support for both parties and help you navigate through this experience.  

I assist you in working through the aftermath of the affair utilizing a 3 part approach, beginning with Crisis Management, working towards Forgiveness, and then Reconciliation.  Each part is broken down into steps that help you move towards the goal of each section.

Like most things in life, the process through this roadmap will not be perfectly linear.  A couple may need to continue to do crisis management throughout the process or need to keep working on forgiveness.  This is where the benefit of my assistance comes in because I will tailor the process to your needs.

For more information about our Affair Recovery Therapy Center, click here.

Unsure of whether your relationship can be saved?  Click here to find out about Discernment Counseling.

**If you are in crisis, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, a free, 24-hour hotline at 1.800.273.8255 or text "Home" to 741741. If your issue is an emergency, call 911 or go to your nearest emergency room. If you need local crisis intervention/support in the Bay Area, check out Bay Area Suicide Crisis & Intervention Alliance (BASCIA) online. I do not offer crisis counseling or emergency services. 


Jennifer Haya is a Registered Associate Marriage and Family Therapist (AMFT 127004) and a Registered Associate Professional Clinical Counselor (APCC 9907) at Couples Recovery Center and is supervised by Dr. Harry Motro, a Couples Counselor, and is an employee of Harry Motro, Psy.D., Marriage and Family Therapist, P.C., which is a Professional Corporation. Couples Recovery Center provides specialized couples counseling and includes the following professionals:



The recommendations on this website do not constitute professional advice, substitute for professional treatment, or establish a therapeutic relationship.

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